The following pictures are of the science fiction Star Wars universe. These characters are members of the Sith Order, which are the bad guys who use the "dark side" of the "force". The force is a power that allows great strength to those who master it and can enable you to levitate objects and various other abilities. It has two sides, just like a coin. I bring up these characters because they strongly resemble the empty promises of Satan of being empowered through pre-marital sex, and various other self-centered, self-gratifying, self-endulgent, fleshy and wordly behavior.
The Sith Code:Peace is a lie, there is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall free me. |
The Sexpert Code:There is no truth; there is only the flesh. God is who I make Him; He does not control me. By bowing to my whims, I am truly free. To acknowledge scope and consequence from my actions is to live in fear, submission and inhibitions. POWER is attained when I let go of guilt. I ignore what is outside of me and beyond me. My world that I build is the only righteousness. I ALONE am master of my fate. I am in control; God of my own universe. |
The Devil is a counterfeit God; for everything that Christ is, the Devil has a perversion. This is also true when it comes to sex. The modern world teaches a boy that a girl is a gateway to sex, rather than sex is a gateway to the girl. The modern world teaches that you need to have sex in order to "know what you are talking about". The reality is that you must know what you are talking about in order to have sex! The modern world says that you can only grow sexually by embracing your lust and build your own personal version of sexual morality. This would only be true if each person INVENTED sex themselves! Because GOD made sex, the person must LET GO of their self-centeredness and grow sexually by REJECTING your lust!
In the Star Wars universe, by embracing the dark side, I have been told that characters grow stronger FASTER! This has been said by myself and other conservatives when it comes to sin and humanism! It seems that the individual is more powerful for embracing a self-centered sexual theology and is clear minded and free, when the opposite is true. Also, in the Star Wars universe, the Sith had a huge problem of the apprentices killing their masters! This was due to the uncontrolled lust for power and conquest. So Sith pairs had to be established to try to address this self-destructive behavior. The same is true when it comes to sexual morality! Having pre-marital sex does not quench lust! It builds it up WORSE! A man can bang every woman on the planet and not be happy! Illicit sex is NOT anything that can satiate a person; it is a knumber and pacifier! This is the exact opposite extreme of spiritual fulfillment!
In the Star Wars movies, Yoda was asked by Luke Skywalker: [paraphrasing] "Is the Dark Side of the force the stronger of the two sides?" Yoda said NO; BUT it is the MORE seductive! Yoda cited that embracing the dark side is the "quick and easy way".
This is exactly how it is with sex as well! No matter how liberals slice it and dice it, it is FAR easier to have sex than it is to NOT have sex! The modern world says that pre-marital sex is empowerment; it is freedom; it is the celebration of the individual. Pop culture theology states that only the individual can know from WITHIN that they are justified to have pre-marital sex, as opposed to knowing from OUTSIDE through Christ! Only God can make the call when it is OK to have sex - when you are married. It is not up to us. Pre-marital sex is NOT freedom; it is slavery.
A modern world feminist woman's empowerment viewpoint:
I once had a female friend who stated that no man could bring her to orgasm until she "learned how to be selfish". AMAZING! According to her, God designed sex so screwed up that the two people have to actually work AGAINST each other instead of connecting with each other through sex! So wait a minute; there is no such thing as connecting with your spouse? There is no such thing as being moved by a person of the opposite sex? Everybody is just in it for the "buzz" and it is a war to see who can get THEMSELVES off and there is no deep sexual connection? It is just about body parts and nerve endings without morality?
This was the same woman who stated that she likes to have sex with a man BEFORE they get serious because she wants to know how good he is in the sack before making an emotional commitment! PLEASE why didn't I think of that?? She used the premise that there is no such thing as a connection between the person and sex! The WHOLE POINT to sex in marriage is that you have got to be at complete connectivity with your spouse (committed for life through mariage) to have the proper base for sex! Many virginity advocacy groups cite that the people who postpone sex the most are the ones that wind up with the best sex!
Now, many pro-boinkers will say that this is a lie.
They use the grounds of illicit sex being exciting to say that illicit sex is the best.
They say that staying a virgin until marriage is missing out.
They say that sex in a long standing relationship (even marriage) gets "predictable" and dull.
They use the analogy of a cereal variety pack and say things like "I don't care how much you like pizza, if you have it for 3 meals a day for years, you'll get sick of it".
These are all lies!
This is the "quick and easy" way to disgusting gratification, and also a HERESY against God because it implies that sin itself is required to achieve fulfillment and happiness. Joy riding in a stolen car, doing a line of cocaine, being a kiddie rapist who just raped an 8 year old, killing someone who hurt you, and such are ALL behaviors known for being pleasureable! So what - that makes it right? The truth is that MORE pleasure can be attained by the long and hard way! Like all else, you have to WORK at it, not just let it happen inherently! This is yet another tool of the Dark Side of sex; if the person surrenders their autonomy to a fleshy theology, they are in return EMPOWERED and free! This is not freedom; this is the illusion of freedom.
You are NOT missing out by staying a virgin until you get married! That is a contradiction because the only way to have deep spiritual sex IS to do it after marriage. You have got to have a connection with your spouse to KNOW what you want out of sex and what sex means to you for it to be the best sex! That is the FALLACY of "try before you buy". It is like eating frozen before before you put it in the microwave. Besides, I am not going to listen to a rapist tell me that I don't know what I am talking about when I condemn rape. He can say "How would YOU know? You've never raped!" Do you see the fallacy here? When it comes to sex, and to use an analogy with it being like fire (in many ways it is) boinkers and pro-pre-marital sexers are BURN VICTIMS, NOT FIREMEN!!! When you need a fire put out, you do not call burn victims who have "experienced" fire! You call a fireman! Knowing about sex and having done it are two ultra radically different things. You think being shot in the foot makes you an expert in ballistics?
As far as sex being predictable: That requires true communication and growth. Like everything else, you have got to keep at it! AGAIN this is an example of people using modern world self-centered theology to argue that because something doesn't happen passively or by default, that it won't happen! This is moral laziness!