You assholes have all of this BASS ACKWARDS!!!!! If women are screwed up and bred from BIRTH to see all of the wrong things in men, then I CAN NOT compete with that!! All of the song and dance in the WORLD won't compensate against that! I can try to adapt and learn without becoming a douche bag but in the end the problem of America seems too damn deep to fix!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You learn WAY MORE about dating and women by being rejected and by being a non-conformist. Asshole males are champion conformists by default. Their success with whores happens as a downhill unconscious process and they actually think that they have some sort of "knack". It's like being born white and when racist cops don't pull you over, you think it's because you are some sort of macho man, and the poor black guys that get pulled over are doing something wrong, and if somehow they just followed YOUR advice, they wouldn't get pulled over. Bill Gates said in his book The Road Ahead that Microsoft started to hire former managers from FAILING companies!! His rationale was that when you are failing, you are forced to think aggresively and be resourceful. Some people may have worked for a company during a boom while they were just riding the waves like a surfer, having not truly contributed to the prosperity at all. I know that in my life, from all my failings with women, I have been forced to analyze and become far more aggressive against the world around me. A bruised ego can keep you on your toes; an ego being fed can get you complacent. When you are not starving, you QUIT caring!!!
This is the PROOF for Big Brother in George Orwell's 1984: IGNORANCE IS POWER!! Men that are knuckle dragging cave man brutes do not do the soul searching that the "nice guys" do when they fail with women! These guys are a THOUGHTLESS MACHINE! Rapists have an unbelievable ability to seek out their victims and rape women that are not going to report it. There is no difference here. Both are predators against women! In Transformers, the quote attributed to Devastator is: Thinking and winning do not mix. I couldn't have said it better myself!! There are TONS of stuff that I have learned by just being myself and doing what comes naturally! It is a little trickier than that but there are many times where the situation boils down to that.
Since 1994, I have bought roses for about 20 women. Do you know how many dates I got out of that? You guessed it! ZERO!
I am a particular tuned machine when it comes to understanding slut whore pop-culture and how the interaction between the sexes have degenerated. This is NOT a "sexy" topic for women and most of them do not understand it remotely. In summation, these dames can not get inside my universe so they do not understand me!! I have been told that a lot of liberal feminists are in the same boat. They are hardcore against sexism and bias against women and since men don't go through that, the men can't relate!!! Supposedly she would be my match but they tend to be big liberals, so we are incompatible!! It's a nasty pickle!!!
Arrogance |
Nothing is wrong with women who like initiative. Plenty is wrong when they can't determine when it is slimy and self-serving. This is like the abusive jock that ends up being an agressive bully in a suit for his job. This is a relatively new theory I had told to me by a fellow nerd. Assholes win! Accept it! For the most part, it gets the job done, if all you care about is "surface" results, such as the money, the trophy wife, or stature. It's the perfect key to pseudo-fulfillment. |
Stupidity |
These douche bags can not POSSIBLY take credit for being a "ladies man" on purpose! They aren't that SHARP! They tend to be cold, calculating and motivated in their own primitive way. This silent, predatorial method is more instinctual and psychological than logical. When you are inherently an asshole, it is not hard to be one. If you are not one by nature, it is damn near impossible. |
Conformity |
Learn this NOW and learn this FOREVER! To women, conformity is SEXY! If you want to be seen as "cool" to the crowd, all you have to do is do what the crowd thinks is cool! It's very simple and obvious!!! Non-conformists like myself tend to heavily QUESTION our environment and CHALLENGE standards! Because of this we come across as being in disarray or even confused, since we are constantly processing more data than "Joe Blow Conformist"! This is very unsexy to women! I've heard the assertion that women tend to be more emotional and non-linear in thought. OK, that might fly. So it stands to reason that a woman wants the opposite in a man; which is linear and basic in thought. This is yet another element that works against me. |
Immorality |
Evil is very seductive and social conservatism FAILS against liberalism unless the complexities of conservatism are explained with much detail, or the person is already disciplined in the fallacies of social liberalism. Accept it! |
I am the exact opposite extreme of these four pillars so it works against me! One time in voice chat in Yahoo, a guy said: "Level with a woman and you NEVER get laid!" And damn, I am the living proof of that!!
I hear women bitch that "nice guys" aren't aggressive, and I then hear when I compliment women or am direct in communication in what I am about, that I come across as too strong. Well if damned women today, can't make up their mind, then how can I win???? Douche bags tend to override their radar and scramble up women's perception and confuse them, and somehow this allures women!! It's exploiting them, but it is what gets a guy laid, so many men go ahead and do it.
I have high standards! Many conservative women are "iffy" about what I'll call "ghetto issues" and don't want to date outside of their race. This is unacceptable to me, and I think that having compatibility with a liberal woman is very unlikely, so I am screwed. People tend to be in their closed pockets, even though we are supposed to be in an open and liberated age today!
As for the actual SEX!! Most women my age pissed away their cherry way over a decade ago, and it seems that they can not relate. This is an iffy theory of mine but I have seen a lot of this creep up. Instead of it being a good thing, it works against me.
About being vocal and today's acceptable ways to MEET someone: I have ran personal ads in the school paper when I was in college and made the case that I am not some slick bar fly with sleazy pick up lines that knows all of the body language, eye winks, and pass codes to get into a girl's panties and got minimal results. Ads are taboo today because it comes across as desperate. The opposite is true! It is the LOSERS that do NOT need ads and dating websites because they are the mainstream conformist sell outs that sink to a low denominator to get "hook ups". Personal ads are a way out for people, but I have had a conservative female friend that said no matter how good the ad was, she didn't think she could bring herself to call. So I told her "Well then I'm F****ED!!!!!!", and that was in 1995. Nothing has changed since then...
I had a liberal friend tell me that because I am vocal AND conservative that I will only appeal to .000000000000000001% of women. Wait a damned minute! That is a GOOD MIX and it works AGAINST ME?????? I've worked hard to stay firm and vocal and to hold onto my virginity and conservative morality!! If women are spineless whores, then so be it. I'd like to kill someone.
One guy sent me an email in the 90s and said my problem was that I go after the same women that ALL men go after: the pretty Christian girls! So what am I supposed to do? Go after all of the ugly Devil worshipping girls?? Another guy asked me if I ever just TALKED to a girl, so I said 1000 times! And also the "You're still young" excuse pissed me off when I was 22 and carries FAR less weight now that I am 37 (currently). If there are extreme cultural variables that oppress women and condition them to like guys who degrade them, then I am SCREWED no matter HOW MUCH TIME PASSES!!!
Also, the soccer-mom syndrome: Most women my age and much younger are single moms and they have soccer practice and dance recitals to go to. Some even take it so far as to say that they'd PREFER a man with children OR that a man my age with no kids and has never been married has to have something wrong with him! Can you imagine the arrogance??? So that is yet another thing that works against me hardcore!
