(1)Internet activism (2)Record label "Insane Asylum" (3)Mass information handling software (4)Socio-political multimedia movie "Cyberwars" (5)Found media centers (6)Run for political office
value system and which sub-culture
to which they subscribe, as opposed to
amoral, immediately practical, money and power based goals
to make goals rooted in who they are instead of an arbitrary
of social engineering
AND secular, take the steps in catering to
moral choices and implementing them
so people can choose the companies and
entities that shape their life
where they can act on their pain
instead of mindless recreation
to knumb their pain
And just how will we do THAT?
NOTE:I rewrite introductions a million times; most of the versions are just scattered notes in my composition that never make it to the Internet. I have so much to say and it seems that there is no one true place to start, so I decide to start at what seems like a good beginning then come to another way I can start. So this material may be revised in the future, although it has taken me from May 1997 to August 1999 to add any real new material for my web page.
(2)Before sexual morality can change, dating morality must change. Therefore, I have laid out a drawn out and multi-leveled agenda. It is our entire nation's sexual moral reference frame:
(3)We must alter the outlook of sex in our culture (and nothing short of that) to ever see a reduction in divorce, an end to systematic teen/pre-marital sex, and to not have the intense degree of power struggles and resentment that is growing between the sexes.
Virginity is an outright JOKE today! Teen sex is mainstream, and having pre-marital sex is more and more closely associated with being an adult and dominately mainstream, and all attempts and efforts made to fight this just prove how futile it really is.
This is a camp for gathering of resources, information, debate techniques, ideology maps and activism blueprints that will polarize resisting forces among the anti-pre marital sex population. The problem is not that not enough care or have the resources; it is that the problems are so complex and ever shaping that we need dynamic, spontaneous insitutions and high polarization of all media and actiivsm groups to be effective against this pop culture.
As life gets more complicated in the modern world, people are swayed into the wrong way of life easier. Leisure time and the multi-media has played a role in that, but radicals like me who have been pushed out of society as a punishment for non-conformity see the mainstream's mistakes from a distance, from the outside. The focus on the sexual materialism (equating sex with something substantive) with use of the entertainment media (the bikini blitz, Hooters, overly made up women on fashion mags, excessively voluptuous and/or skinny women in media) has given us the power to give our enemy a face.
We equate curves and breasts with female prowess and power, when in actuality any woman having to pimp her body to get ahead has no power. Relationships get degraded into gender based ego battles. We have so much baggage in our lives, that the most complex and delicate thing about us (how we interact romantically with the opposite sex) gets smashed and polluted. The obsession with youthful models emanates the destruction of innocence in our culture. Teeny bopper models with their flesh displayed for tantilization symbolizes how the industry as an older pimp taking advantage of little girls to naive and blinded by stars and glitter (and their own alieantion in their lives) to see that they're exploited. teenage girls who don't have nonchalant sexual morals and pseudo adulthood values are displayed as ugly, backward, masculine and/or psychologically troubled.
We (nerds and non-conformists) now have the power to paint a picture, and with that derive a solid agenda to address the social and moral problems that have plagued this great nation for so long.
God Almighty Lord Jesus Christ, help us all!!!
Problems with Attempt 1: This is nothing new; there would be no point in me starting this web page and just being another voice in the wind. People, for centuries have fought this and the subject is well covered.
1) Kids aren't reached.
a)They are convinced that the older age bracket doesn't understand.
b)The message often takes forms of a "Just Say No" tone with no real depth to it.
c)The teen sex issue if too often addressed as an issue of logic, rather than seen as a heavily emotionally tinged issue. The "reasons" why you shouldn't do it are listed and debated, bringing the "virginity" function or program to and end, with the feeling as if something has really been done.
2) The agenda isn't clear.
a)Teen sex is seen as a problem, rather than what it really is: a symptom.
b)The issue is too often addressed as strictly a surface problem. Let's say that by some miraculous miracle, all teenagers in the country decide simultaneously that the media blitz of all of the mistakes, pregnancies, diseases, and added complications to relationships are caused by teen sex and this "free love" isn't all it's cracked up to be...
Then what?!!?!?!? What has changed? What has been said? How have they been helped?
Problems with Attempt 2:The underlying element has not been identified. Dig deeper.
A nation is nothing without a moral reference frame. What is the building block of the nation's moral reference frame? The cohesive family unit! What is a family before it is a family? A married couple! What is a married couple before a married couple? A dating couple! How to people get to date? Their sexual reference frame they pull from when dealing with the opposite sex!
Now, when the nation's sexual moral reference frame is tampered with, the nation is screwed. With the modern world here, we have an explosion of:
A) Leisure time
B) Options FOR the leisure time
C) Mass media (entertainment as well as information)
D) Standard of living (materialism)
E) Essential need for a specific career
F) systematic family unit breakdown
ALL leading to...
A) Generation gap
B) Focusing on the tangible and immediate
C) Confusion for life goals (result in unfulfillment and malcontentment)
D) Clear division of social class (non-financial) I.E. the "cools" and "nerds". The ones who know all of the slang, girl pick up lines, social pass codes and emotional intimidation techniques, wears the right clothes, hairstyle, type of music, etc. It transcends material recreation and becomes attitude.
E) STRESS STRESS STRESS!!!
F) Violence coming out of unstable homes
With this "lunch rush" mentality that has been incorporated into everyday life, the common man is far more likely to embrace a lot of knee-jerk ideologies in his life. Things aren't always thought out, or done on what initially feels good or right. Sex is no exception. It is a very complicated issue, and it is commonly believed that because one's body and sexuality is a very personal thing, that we are inherently inclined to be very perceptive to what is beneficial to us, and far less likely to hurt ourselves. INSANE! We can not equate something very personal with something democratic. Sex (like I said, not just the raw intercourse, but relationships, love and marriage) is so complicated that few people could ever just go about life without ever discussing sex, love, dating and relationships without making some serious, hurtful mistakes. We have adopted the way of thinking that there is no right or wrong that transfers from individual to individual. We are all God in our own, personalized reality. The individual can make no mistakes, therefore whenever anyone takes the initiative to help someone by gathering information, asking them to question their actions or behaviors (after seeing people seriously hurt themselves with rushed sex) is labeled as a Nazi or an "old fogie".
The previous paragraph is not making an argument for suppression of the individual, rather it is EXPOSING examples of individualism being suppressed! The problem is that people today are becoming less and less understanding that not everyone can know everything about every aspect of life. Therefore, it is in the interests of rugged individualism for convention and authority to be established, so that a VAST majority of individuals aren't swept away in their own drowning mess of knee-jerk idealism (the belief that all first impulses are always right). These established institutions (i.e. churches... remember those?) are designed to help people unlock their true self, not suppress it for the sake of order or benefit of society only as a whole in some communist fashion.
Implementation... (the "meat and potatoes")
There are NO, absolutely NO quick fix or linear methods to destroy the current insane, exploding teen sex rate (as well as the acceptance and second level consequences that no one hears about); the trick is that there IS no trick. There are no stick worshiping, backward, archaic magic spells that we can use to destroy the teen sex rate. It WILL be done by conventional methods, (TV, magazines, information data bases organized electronically for instant access) through the use of UNconventional techniques (massive, unprecedented amount of information exchange, databases organized with software that can go deeply down as the personal level for each user, deeper, thicker analyzation of the argument of the "safer sex" and pro-unconditional sex crowd, use of emotion through media footage, events, and so on to inject the human effect of living as a teen in this country (under this decay) so that the problems are expressed as mere statistics, massive integration of the exploding multi-media into the political system (far more directly than is being done now - for example, virgin gurus examining current bills, laws and voting records of any and all politicians and organizing the information as to what themes the legislator must apparently be pulling from). Every time someone throws their arms in the air and says how teen sex is so bad, and we'll never reduce it, they do so because they know that any close version of the agenda that anyone's had in the past to combat it has failed miserably, but now that society has mutated in it's current form, the younger generation now lives in a world where there are so many labels, and means of classification and identification that things like moral issues and struggles can be pictured, seen clearly (mentally) and identified (in respect to what ultimate lines of thinking is this lifestyle coming from... i.e. moral relativism, crowd conformity, false interpretation of stress and/or youthful anxiety, embracing of knee-jerk idealism, lack of core ethics, social submissiveness and so on).
In this page, context is everything! Nothing will mean anything if you don't get the underlying gist of what my intentions are. The words alone can't do it!!
This struggle is not about raw sex; it's about the compromise of our entire sexual ethics reference frame (dating, kissing, relationships, friends of the opposite sex) the only way that this cultural struggle will be won is through a massive media explosion that will act as the battlefield for all those who have anything to say about sex and marriage and all else. The sub-cultures are already here. The battles across the media have already been happening; it's time to amplify them so more and more immediate and long range conflict can happen. It is the only way.
When you pseudo-sexual freedom advocates (extreme liberals and/or boinkers) show me your ill-founded anger and biting sarcasm, (you think that me telling it like it is so wrong while you don't have the GUTS to address the problem of skyrocketing teen sex and divorce as serious and inexcusable) you are proving to me that I am on to something here and that I am on the right track. You have confirmed that I know how to draw blood; otherwise, I wouldn't be able to get under your skin in the way that I do. So keep it up so you can make this lowly nerd an even more powerful vessel of the REAL Sexual Revolution that is to come, than what I am already today!
You get me off when you flame me! THANKS!
August 4 1999
Like my friend Mike Allen from the website "Strange Disposed Times" has stated: The sexual revolution didn't free women from sexual repression; it freed men from sexual responsibility. And until men and women stop treating each other like dogs, it doesn't matter how much of these little maggot victories we have like this tiny 1998 drop in teen sex we had; because people like me will still be justified in our anger.
To all my fans, I love each and everyone of you. Peace brothers! (gender neutral) Remember the importance of staying connected and the true power and potential of a world at your fingertips can be. We can help each other understand ourselves and our own ideals better the more we communicate with each other. Remember, if we get a little down when it seems like the sexual liberals are becoming more and more mainstream, then we are asserting that they are building their actions of of ill-founded premises; therefore we are forced to acknowledge that they can fall. We believe in right and wrong; and we believe in consequence! Therefore it is irrational of us to believe that they are an undefeatable foe! Put your faith in God...